What does love feel like?

What does love feel like to you? Depending on life experience, gender, race, culture, many factors. It feels different for everyone.

Scary

Sweet

Cold

Dangerous

Surreal

Hot

Exciting

Warm

Yeah, you know I have an opinion about it. *smile*

The term "love" is used incorrectly a lot. Sometimes due to cultural differences, sometimes in the interest of being polite or PC.

Most commonly, the word, "LOVE" is used in place of sex or f*cking. Is it any wonder, then, that so many girls get confused when a guy is willing to have sexual intercourse, yet, is unwilling or not free to love them?

Having been around the tree a few times, I have learned to tell the difference between when someone genuinely cares.......also, when they don't. Whatever their actions are, negates their words when their actions disprove their words.

Inaction or failing to act can also negate words.

A fave quote:

There are 3 types of people in your life.

1. Those who help you

2. Those who hurt you

3. Those who leave you alone

Those who help you, genuinely care, they have your well being at heart.

Those who hurt you want you to stay the same, never growing, never changing. This preserves their comfort.

Those who leave you alone don't care if you are suffering or not. They have no desire to make time for you.

GREAT QUOTE!

This tells, right there, who truly cares, who does not.

When someone cares about me, I can definitely see the difference. They are accepting of me, my flaws, my pleasant parts. They accept it all. Same, here. It's how humans are "wired"

Give yourself permission to only allow the influence of people in category #1 to have a bearing on you, on your life.

Blood family members may be in #1, they may just be #2. Ha ha!

Think about this, see if it resonates with you.

Be good to yourself.

You are worth it!