It may be a secret or it may have been a BIG secret until...now.
There are so many people who are married yet not committed to the one they are married to...on paper.....living with.
To be married is a legal state of being mainly for IRS purposes.
To be committed? This means that the other persons happiness is your FIRST priority!
If you think of the one you are committed and married to as to whether your thoughts & actions will detract or add to their personal happiness, most likely you are committed to the one you are married to.
If you think & act in secret, disregarding your wife/husbands happiness, you may be married while not truly committed.
It doesn't make you bad nor good. It simply, is.
Having had many experiences in the spectrum, while listening to Esther Perel, I have run through the gauntlet of guilt of validation of shame of hope, it's a gamet of emotions.
If you listen, you may feel the same.
https://youtu.be/r0dVjeBNANA
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