Fifty...
These religious zealots who talk talk talk about something are giving it free publicity. So much publicity that it even reached me. Me?
I shun most media interaction.
Hell! I don't even send a photo to guys who I have not spoken with either in person or on the phone.
So, when all these supposed "Christian" zealots were giving free publicity to Fifty Shade of Grey, I took bait.
Bought the trilogy by E.L. James, then devoured them at the speed I ripped through the 4 books in the Twilight series!
Loved them!
The movie (which I'm watching for the 5th time) was okay. Yupp!
The book is usually better.
The movie was full of eye candy for ladies. :)
It seems to portray the actions of a real man who is truly interested in a woman.
~ He takes action
~ He's truthful
~ He's honest
~ He pays attention to what she says
~ He likes plus analyzes her details
~ He comes back to her no matter what
Just mah pea brain observations.
Hating is prohibited.
Watching the movie repeatedly, I realize the allure it has. Most guys, who just want a quick, easy fuck, display characteristics other than above. They are not serious about anything besides quickly, easily meeting their own needs. Disregarding the needs, the feelings of the girl. She's basically street meat for whatever purposes he has in mind for her. Nothing about her matters to him.
Guys are visual, if they are not serious or have dishonorable intent, they expect perfection. When they are seriously wanting a relationship, when they really want to care, perfectly imperfect is acceptable.
Cheating married guys are in a douche bag cat all by themselves.
So, back to the allure.
Women usually don't expect perfection. They want effort!
Usually, they want someone to stop with the fancy talk, they want to see the guy put some actions behind his talk.
Fifty Shades of Grey is a romance about a woman and a man, a REAL man who says what he means, speaks truthfully, takes care of the woman he involves himself with.
Takes care of her body, her heart, her desire. I once read a quote:
"One definition of a coward is a male who awakens the love in a woman knowing he is neither free nor willing to love her in return."
The man who has this figured out, who has honorable intent, who is single & truly available to love is a wise man.
Be real, best way to live.
Laters, peeps!
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