It's that sweet sensation of familiarity with that which is not familiar. The heart warming feeling of comfort with a person who you just barely met. You two have your own vibe that you both know which is as real as anything you know well, yet you don't.
(Are you confused af yet?)
Have you felt this feeling?
It's common sense leaving your body en mass!
Just joking, bruh.
That feeling? It's connection!
People get the warmies for each other very easily. The feeling fades on a dime. One day it's strong, soon, it's gone.
Attraction is fleeting.
Connection?
I don't know exactly wth connection is. Knowing what it is when I feel it, well, durr! Yes, I have felt it, also know when the other person is feeling it or things are less than stellar for them. rut-roh!
I mean, I have my theories, my own hypotheses.
Often, the chemistry between 2 people is faked so that one person can get in the other persons panties or sometimes, their money ala romance scams.
That's not connection.
Connection is when you can connect on dearly held deep beliefs. 2 people who show kindness, courtesy for the other person.
It can be felt by messaging online, chatting, messaging, emailing.
It can be felt in person, upon a first meeting. Danger - Danger.
Personal beliefs, I have a few.
Sometimes there are 2 people. 1 of them is at a vulnerable time in life when the other who is vulnerable yet stronger.
They connect over email or IM or phone at first. Rarely initially in person yet if they connect other than in person to start, if there is geographic distance, they, most likely, won't meet in person.
Then, there are those who connect online, then, if one is not otherwise very committed or stays interested with the limited connecting, there may be a face to face connection.
The heart to heart, spirit to spirit connection is strong.
Most people have less appreciation for connection than they do for attraction. Attraction is more wham-bam now I don't give a ........
Connection?
Connection lasts. Even if the 2 people don't see each other for a long time, months, years, even decades, connection is there.
It remains long after the physical proximity, long after the physical, in person interaction ends.
Connection of the spirit will last long after the body has passed on.
Connection could be the product of compatible genetics (aka having chemistry with someone), it could be many things. idk.
All I know is this, connection with another person is precious, it's rare. When it happens, I cherish it.
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